Monday, December 28, 2009

Day 114: I Still Love Sundays

Sunday, December 27

I don’t have anything incredible to report today. It’s been a lovely day, but nothing terribly exciting. Nonetheless, a lovely Sunday in India. And the fact that it is the first day of the week that my hubby will be here, even better day!

My day started when I finally woke up around 1:30 pm. I hung out with my friend Meredith when she knocked on the door. Somehow we ended up looking at my wedding pictures. It was so nice to relive my beautiful wedding. Although, seeing pictures of Devin made me miss him even more.

Meredith headed out to go shopping, but I stayed back. I needed to get caught up on some things here in the hotel room, including my reimbursement paperwork that needs to be completed. I did run downstairs for some lunch, but other than that spent the afternoon working in my room.

After giving my lunch a couple hours to settle, it was off to the gym for my daily workout. Due to the holiday, I missed a couple days and Monesh, one of the personal trainers, reminded me quit quickly the importance of not missing a day!

Once the tail whooping was over, I ran back upstairs for a quick shower. I went to dinner with a couple of the other ladies from work. We went to TGIFriday’s and man was it tasty! I love Indian food, but that doesn’t change the love for what taste like home!

Now, it’s back to the room for some R & R before going back to work tomorrow. I hope you all have had a wonderful weekend and are ready for the last few days of 2009. I’ll catch you all on the flip side! ;-)

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 3 days…

Day 113: Hot Ice

Saturday, December 26

So I just finished Hot Ice by Nora Roberts. I have been a Nora Roberts fan for years and have enjoyed many of her books over time. However, this one was not my favorite.
The book was about the daughter of a billionaire, Whitney, that longed for something other than the world on a platter and a high class thief that made business partner with the wrong bad guy. Doug Lord, the thief, had gotten his hands on a French diary from the French Revolution with the promise for treasure fit for a queen.

Doug met Whitney when he jumped in her car on a street in Manhattan running from the Dmitri’s thugs that are out to kill him. Whitney quickly learns about the treasure hunt and views it as an adventure that she’s willing to front the expenses for half the treasure. And so the unrealistic, yet extremely exciting, adventure begins. After jet setting off to Madagascar via a trip to Paris, they set off on a foot, only a step or two ahead of the thugs.

Of course, they fall in love, always got out of the impossible situations, and never went hungry for too long. Eventually, they found the treasure, but were quickly captured by the bad guys, at least Whitney was. Doug on the other hand, went to go find her and tries to rescue her. Naturally Whitney is rescued, but not by who you think she would be. Doug makes it out alive as well and as with any happy ever after book, the bad guys go to jail.

Not surprisingly, Whitney and Doug go their separate ways, at least for a month or two when they realize they can’t possibly live without each other. Doug shows up to propose nonetheless. So predictable!

The book itself was ok. A nice level of adventure to keep you turning the pages. Unfortunately it was only to find out that you were exactly right in guessing what was going to happen next! Also, while a little kissing and hugging is ok, I’m not a fan of Harlequin and Nora got a little too close. All in all I give the book 2.5 out of 5 stars. Hopefully the next book will be a little better!

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 4 days…

Day 112: My Unforgettable Indian Christmas

Friday, December 25

Merry Christmas!! I woke up early this morning and went to the Christmas service at the church I attended a few weeks ago. The service was beautiful and it was so nice to have so many others that understood what today really is about. The service ended with a communion service that was unforgettable and lovely!

After church it was back to the hotel for a delicious Christmas buffet lunch. I had turkey, prawns, sushi, mashed potatoes, grilled mixed veggies, and a dessert plate to make anybody jealous. I discovered Yule log and Partole, a divinity type dessert that has a strawberry in the center. Ah so good!! Yummie!

Next, it was off to the spa for a little Christmas pampering. I had a little “threading” done first. Quite the experience! It’s an alternative to waxing and while it’s a little more painful at the moment, it’s a lot less harsh than waxing. Yay, no burn marks! Next I had the best pedicure I’ve ever had. The guy got his workout for the day sanding off the months worth of flip-flop wearing callouses that previously inhabited my feet! Lastly, it was off to for my one hour massage. The best part, all of this cost less than it would have cost to get any one of these treatments in the States! I love India!!!

Again, back to the hotel for a shower and to get ready for my first Indian house visit. A friend from work, Nitin, invited me to join his wife and family for Christmas dinner. Nitin’s mom is so very sweet! She reminded me of going home in the States. She kept trying to feed me more and more even when I wasn’t hungry at all. And that was before dinner! LOL!

Nitin, Soloni, his wife, and Nitin’s brother took me to enjoy some Indian street food! Oh my YUM!! I had seeki kebabs, seeki rolls, and the best lamb chops I have EVER had!! All I could think was where have Seeki kebabs been all my life! And how much Devin would love the lamb chops. Add to that the great time Soloni and I had just being girls and the great conversation with my new friends, all in all, a great night!

Once back to the hotel, I got to talk to many family and friends back in the States and wish them all a very Merry Christmas. While I wish I could have been with my family and Devin of course today, this was truly a Christmas I will never forget! I’m so blessed for such an amazing day to celebrate the birth of my Savior!

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 5 days…

Day 111: Christmas Eve!!

Thursday, December 24

Poster Note: Sorry these got out of order.... Devin


Well, it FINALLY looks like Christmas in India! It’s so weird, in the US the Christmas decorations make it up in every public place no later than the day after Thanksgiving, although many retail stores have it out before Halloween. Not in India my friend. Even the American hotel we are staying at waited until this evening to put up the tree. Which is quite pretty, Grandmother would approve, everything matches beautifully!

At work, all of the kids spent the evening decorating the bays and painting their faces, an Indian way of celebrating any holiday. I’ve never seen so much fake snow and glitter in an office building! There was even a visit from Santa! LOL! It was hysterical to see one of the kids with fake snow taped to his face and balloons shoved up underneath his red jacket. I had a blast and laughed most of the evening. Well, when I wasn’t working of course! ;-)

This wasn’t a normal Christmas Eve for me. I mean I’m use to working, but I wasn’t able to make it to a Christmas Eve service since I didn’t leave work until 11:30 pm. And my Christmas Eve dinner, Pizza Hut! Not quite the same as finger foods at a friend’s house or Prime Rib at Aunt Fay’s, but pretty taste nonetheless!

Well, I am headed to bed so I can enjoy my Christmas tomorrow! I have plans to head to church, lunch at the hotel, and then over to a friend’s house for dinner. Should be a great day! Merry Christmas to you and your kin!

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 6 days…

Day 115: Is it Wednesday Yet?

Monday, December 28

I don’t even know what to write. I’m beside myself with excitement that I get to see my precious husband in only two more days! I realize that because you are my family and friend, you too are excited for me. However, I also understand that you must be sick of listening to me be mushy and anxious for Devin’s arrival. LOL! Thank you for loving me anyway! I really can’t help it!

With all that being said, all in all today was an ok day. Work was a little frustrating. I had several questions that I know they know the answer to and one guy that ask for help and then wanted to argue about whether I was right or not. PS the answer was right in front of him!

I did have my fourth interview for the promotion at work. I think it went ok, but it wasn’t nearly as long as the previous interviews. I feel like I’m giving cookie cutter answers even though they really aren’t. I’ve just given the answer four times so I’m worried that I sound a little rehearsed. Well, I guess in this case, that’s ok. At least I’m consistent!

Also, I went to the gym before work. Simple cardio today and tomorrow is supposed to be a rest. I ask if it was ok for me to come tomorrow so I can take a rest while my hubby is here. Monesh said ok, Parkesh wasn’t there, I’ll probably get in “trouble.” Oh well!

Ok enough pointless rambling that I’ll call my blog for the night. I’m going to call Devin and go to sleep. This will be the last time I get to talk to him before he boards a plane, Delhi bound! Please pray for safe travels for Devin and for no delays! He is making such a short trip, even a little delay could serious cut into what little time we have together.

Thank you for all your love and support!
With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 2 days…

Day 110: One More Week!!

Wednesday, December 23

Warning: This blog maybe viewed as extremely mushy and may cause extreme romantic thoughts!

So my hubster will be here in one more week. By the time he gets here, it will have been two month since we have seen each other. On the way to work this evening, I was sitting in the car with my coworkers, talking about all the reasons I’m excited to see my husband. I decided that I would dedicate tonight’s blog to the top 10 reasons I’m excited that my HWDB will be here!!

10) Hot Tamales and Tuna fish! Ok so I realize this might seem odd, but Hot Tamales are my favorite candy and do not exist in India. And tuna fish is kind of a staple food that is needed to survive a foreign country, and I’m out of the original that I brought.

9) Changing up my clothes! I am so sick of wearing the same fifteen shirts over and over again. Devin is bringing me some clothes from home to exchange out with the ones I’m so sick of wearing.

8) I get to talk to his face instead of a small electronic device. Don’t get me wrong, I’m very thankful that I’m able to take to Devin every day, but to talk to his sweet face instead of through my blackberry, priceless!

7) I can introduce Devin to all my new friends. I have met so many amazing people here and I look forward to having Devin here to meet them too!

6) Someone to share my meals with. I have the occasionally meal with the other folks from work, but I miss sitting over a wonderful meal with my wonderful hubby and sharing wonderful conversation! The romance of staring into each other’s eyes as we share a rich risotto or creamy cheesecake makes my heart melt! What can I say, the way to a Lusk heart is almost always through their stomach! ;-)

5) I get to show him India and not just with pictures. There are so many amazing and or crazy things I have seen here. Pictures don’t show the traffic and the view from Amber Fort just can’t be captured with a simple click of the Cannon. I look forward to having this experience together! It will truly be something we will remember forever!

4) Snuggled conversations! One of my favorite times of the day at home is when we crawl into bed and lay all snuggled together and tell each other all about our day. Back to the lack of face to face conversation, I look forward being snuggled up and telling each other everything on or minds!

3) Kisses…. Haven’t had any in two months! I’m very, very much over due. And Devin is a great kisser! :-D

2) Hugs! I’m very fortunate in that I have had a hug everyday from one of my friends from work. But a Devin hug is the best out there. Bhavisha gives great friend hugs, but her hugs don’t make you feel safe and secure. When Devin gives me a hug, it’s like nothing in the world could get to me! His hugs make me feel like a protected and cherished princess, not to mention warm and fuzzy all over! And the number one reason I look forward to my hubby being in India…

1) Seven days of quality time with the most amazing man I’ve ever known!!!

Thanks for putting up with the mushy stuff!! ;-)
With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 7 days…

PS from Devin-

What am I looking forward to? NO SNOW!!! HAHAHA

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Day 109: Typical Tuesday

Tuesday, December 22

It’s interesting to me what a creature of habit I can become. I doubt it will come as a surprise to anyone that I flourish under a routine. After all, it’s my personality! But, it still amazes me how much better I feel now that I have myself back on a regular routine.

Remember how just a week ago I was complaining about how all I want to do these days is sleep, but I wanted to not feel so sleepy all the time. Well, the solution, it seems was actually to sleep less. I was sleeping way too much. Once I started getting up at 1 pm every day, the bags under my eyes have greatly reduced! So now that I have a new routine, I thought I would share it with you! After all, I know you can’t bear to not know my every move! (Said with extreme sarcasm!!)
My day starts with a 1 pm wakeup call that is no longer a sweet voice but is instead an automated voices, ugh. But the wakeup call is still proving to be more effective than the alarm ever was. After a quick brush of the teeth, it’s down stairs for a visit with my friend Parkesh. After anywhere from an hour to an hour and half he finally finishes torturing me, I mean encouraging me to get healthy, and I run back upstairs to my hotel room for a super quick shower.

After throwing on some cloths, it’s another race downstairs to catch the free lunch buffet included in my room charge before it ends for the day. After surveying my options, I try to decide on the best for me, least likely to upset my stomach, delicious meal I can create. There is the option of a salad, but the lettuce here seems to upset my tummy, so I have to avoid that if possible. I try to go for a little protein, a few carbs, and a lot of veggies. Once I have finished my main course, I order a cappuccino, no foam (they don’t know what a latte is, evidentially that is an American term or something??) and get “dessert.” While there are lots of options for dessert, I try to stick to pineapple and watermelon and maybe a miniature tart if they have favorite flavors, like caramel or chocolate!

After signing the bill, it’s back up to the room, for my second favorite part of the day. I curl up under the covers and read/take a cat nap until 4:30 pm. At 4:30 pm, I turn on Biggest Loser and get my motivation to go back to the gym tomorrow! During commercials, I get my room ready for housekeeping, fix my hair, do my makeup, etc. Once Biggest Loser ends, I start packing up for work and head downstairs to catch my ride at 5:45.

Once the 45 minute commute is complete, it a non-stop adventure at work for the next nine hours. Technically, there is an hour lunch in there, but this too offers excitement as we are never quite sure what we are going to get! At the end of the shift, around 3:30 am, it’s back to the car for the 15 minute drive back to the hotel. Yes the traffic makes that much of a difference! Depending what time we actually leave work, we get back to the hotel anywhere from 4:00 am – 4:30 am. Then it’s time for my favorite part of the day….

I call Devin and we chat for about 30 minutes. We have to tell each other all about our days, discuss family business (read bills), and spend the rest of our call talking about how much we miss each other and can’t wait for him to be here/me to be there. Usually while on the phone with him, I fix a small bite to eat so I can take my Malaria meds and once off the phone, I type my blog and email it to him. Sometimes these things are in a different order, but you get the picture.

With the meds taken, the teeth brushed, and blog done, it’s off to bed to start it all over tomorrow! And now you know the routine! ;-)

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 8 days…

Day 105: The Wedding

Friday, December 18

Book number four of my Indian adventure was “The Wedding” by Nicholas Sparks. This was another fictional story, set in Eastern North Carolina, always a plus. I was left misty eyed with a big smile by the end of the book and ever so anxious for my own prince charming to make his way to the Land of Curry.

“The Wedding” starts with Wilson, the main character, forgetting his and his wife’s 29th wedding anniversary. As his wife cries herself to sleep, he realizes what a huge mistake he has made and becomes absolute terrified that he is about to lose her forever. Wilson, a self proclaimed un-romantic, workaholic, knows that forgetting his anniversary was just the most recent of many missed opportunities to love his wife. He decides then and there that something has to change and that something is him.

Wilson sets out to spend the next year developing a plan to make Jane, his wife, feel like the love of his life that she has always been. Wilson invokes the whole family and all their friends to pull off one of the grandest surprises of all time! With the help of his father-in-law, Noah from “The Notebook,” Wilson learns how to be the romantic that Jane grew up watching her father be. Watching Wilson throughout the year work to rekindle the love that started their marriage reminded me of all the sweet things that Devin and I do for each other and made me want to make sure we never stop!

As the family plans for the wedding of their eldest daughter, Wilson has something up his shelve that is literally a year in the making. Wilson surprises even himself when he is able to pull of the greatest anniversary gift this wife could ever have imagined in the mist of one of the craziest weeks in the life of his family! I don’t want to give the surprise away, but I highly recommend this book to any man looking for some idea of how to blow your wife away! Ladies, you will enjoy the sweet way Sparks paints the picture of Jane and Wilson falling in love all over again. All around, a great read and a precious reminder of how wonderful true love is and how important it is to make every day count.

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 12 days…

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Day 108: Halfway There….

Monday, December 21

Well, so long restful weekend, hello week number 8! I’m half way through my India stay and on the downhill slope to my return home! Exactly 7 weeks from today, I will be on a plane, USA bound! Don’t get me wrong, India is great! I’ve loved every minute of being here. I’ve learn so many wonderful things about another country and culture. I’ve grown as an employee and trainer. And best of all, I have made so many wonderful friends that have each touched my life in a special way.

Not to mention, I have gotten back on track to being healthy with the help of my personal trainer. I went to the gym this morning after my weekend off. I had to work my tail off as I have come to expect and almost enjoy. I also asked them to start working with me to get me running again. Once upon a time I actually enjoyed going for a run. Why I stopped, I’m not sure. But I have tried several times to get back into the habit with no success. Seeing as I came to love running with Staff Sgt. Cheeks running next to me screaming with all 350 lbs of muscle that made up the 6’5” man, I thought maybe having similar “motivation” from a personal trainer might get me back to that point! I’m sure Brooks and Addison would love for Mommy to take them for a run every morning!

Oh Brooks and Addy! I miss those puppies! Grandma Dee is spoiling them rotten, but I hear good reports. I think Devin is missing them too. He said he was probably going to go get them when he gets back from India. I think this is a GREAT idea! This way, they will be there when I home and Devin can email me pictures of my little furry rug rats!!

Speaking of Devin, only NINE more days till he will be here!! Yay, it’s down to single digits! I’m so excited to see him and show him everything. I wish we could have more time, but I will take what I can get. I miss him so much and even a day would be better than nothing. I need some quality HWDB hugs and kisses! Those are impossible to come by in India! ;-)

Yes, this has truly been an amazing experience and I will cherish every minute I have left. But on the other side of the coin is the reminder of just how wonderful home is….

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 9 days…

Day 107: Sunday… The Day of Rest

Sunday, December 20

At that is exactly what I did today. I can’t believe the bum I was! Although after my exciting day yesterday, maybe I needed the rest. I started with meeting a coworker, Linda, for breakfast. We sat and chatted about work and such for over an hour.

Next, back to my room for some reading and a nap. Once I woke up, I went back downstairs with Linda for some lunch. Again, we sat and chatted about life, work, friends, and family for well over an hour. Since I literally hadn’t done a thing since breakfast, I wasn’t very hungry but the lunch buffet is free and I didn’t want to be hungry later and have to pay for it! LOL!

Anyway, guess what I did after lunch? I came back to my room and took a nap! I did read a few chapters in my newest book, but ended up falling asleep. Once I finally woke up, it was defiantly time for a shower. After a long hot rinse off, it was time for more reading, although I managed to stay awake this time!

I started getting hungry and opted for some chicken from room services and massive amounts of Friends reruns. Ah, as “boring” as today may appear, it was so relaxing and refreshing. Tomorrow will be back to the gym, back to work, and back to my normal routine. I hope you all have had a restful and enjoyable weekend too!

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 10 days…

Day 106: The Thrill of the Bargain!

Saturday, December 19

My day started with a knock on the door from one of my Indian friends. After Nivedida rushed me through the dressing process, it was off to the mall for two of my favorite things, coffee and ice cream with my friend, George! There was some lunch and shopping in there too!

Today was George’s last day. George became kind of like a second dad for me while over here. He was born in Hungry, moved to Argentina, then Australia, and finally the States. He is a 55 year old tri-linguist that has great stories and even better jokes. He is also the last of the folks that were here when I got here. I have officially been here longer than anyone else, and the worse part, I’ve watched two leave that arrived after I did and will watch four more do the same before it’s my turn.

Don’t feel too sorry for me, I’m so excited that Devin will be here in a little over a week! I can’t wait to show him everything this amazing city has to offer. In the meantime, I’m being catered to every meal, my bed is made for me every day, and I have a driver that will take me wherever I want to go whenever I want to go! ;-) Oh and I get to work with incredible people every day!
And then there is the shopping! I went to Connaught Place, affectionately referred to as CP by the locals, with a friend from work, Sahill, and his friend, Summer, who works in the Indian fashion industry. We looked in ever shoe hut that CP had to offer looking for shoes big enough to fit my size ten feet. I found ONE pair of decent, acceptable to my new gay fashion friend, and the crazy guy tried to charge me TRIPLE what the shoes were worth. He wouldn’t bargain at all, and didn’t even call back to me when I walked out! Agh, it was like shopping at home!

I did have much better luck with some really pretty pillow covers for my couch though! The lady had small one that she was selling for Rs. 25, but the next size up, she wanted triple, and they weren’t that much bigger! Sahill started to bargain for me and I told him I had this. I offered Rs. 100 for two and walked away when she said no. She quickly said “ok, ok” in English, and then something in Hindi that Sahill wouldn’t translate for me. He laughed and told me that he was impressed and I was a better bargainer then he ever imagined. I decided to take it as a compliment!

After a cup of coffee and a few more stops, it was back to the hotel for a restful evening. I watched tv, read, and went to bed “early” too! All in all a great day!! Until tomorrow…

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 11 days…

Friday, December 18, 2009

Day 104: And the Winner is…

Thursday, December 17

The sweet Indian accent reminding me it’s time to get up work for a second morning in a row! I made it to the gym around 1:15 pm and Prakesh was there with a smile, ready to work me like a camel. He decided that a circuit training routine is the best course of action. After a quick warm-up on the treadmill and some mild stretching, the “fun” began. Oh My Goodness! That man went all “Biggest Loser” on my tail!

He had me doing biceps, triceps, quads, calves, hamstrings, back, chest, shoulders, and abs all in rapid secession. When I say rapid, I don’t mean the actual exercises, no those were slow, drawn out, muscle draining movements. The rapid part came in to play when moving from one exercise to the next. I guess that’s why they call it circuit. Once the circuit was completed twice, it was back to the treadmill for some cardio. Tomorrow is just cardio, but I’m pretty sure he has plans to get my heart rate on up there!

Work was a lot of fun tonight too! The questions are reducing which is always a plus, and means that the floor support has done their job. But at the end of the shift, the entire collections team went downstairs to the new part of the building for some R&R.

First off, the new part of the building is very nice and is where I will be for the last month of my time in India. But beyond that, we got great news, had some interesting activities, and saw some great kids get recognized for their hard work.

The great news, both Christmas Eve and New Years Eve are going to be half days! This is super exciting, especially the Christmas Eve because I should be able to make it to mid-night Christmas Eve church service! Plus, since the days change while at work, I would have had to actually work the first three and half hours of Christmas morning!! I was lucky enough to get all of New Years Eve off since Devin will be here, but nonetheless, it’s nice to know I won’t be missing as much work and that everyone else will get to welcome 2010 with their family and friends.

The best part of the evening though was the arm wrestling completion! Never in the States would such a thing take place, partly because the office is mostly women, but man these Indians know how to have a good time! It was hysterical to watch these 19 to 21 year old boys see who the machoest of them all was! I haven’t laughed that hard in a long, long time!

Needless to say, today was truly a great day! I’m not sure if my abs are sore from “The Light” or from the laughing, but either way, I’m happy. Add to that the fact that Devin will be here in less than two weeks, and I’m on Cloud Nine! ;-)

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 13 days…

Thursday, December 17, 2009

Day 103: Prakesh… It Means Light!

Wednesday, December 16

I did it!! I made it up at a decent hour and, get ready for this, FINALLY made it to the gym! And, I signed up for personal training too! I guess the sweet little Indian accent reminding me to get out of bed really did help. And no one commented on my dark circles tonight either, so I must have looked better too! All around a good thing!

Once at the gym, I met Prakesh the director of the gym and my new personal trainer. Today was spent talking about my medical and health history; I don’t think he believed me when I told him I use to run three miles a day. He messed with my bad ankle to get a better understanding what I could and couldn’t do. And of course we had to talk about what I currently weigh. I will say the number is a little easier to swallow in kilos!

Next Prakesh ask me what I want to accomplish in the time I have here. While I wanted to answer “a Tyra Banks body” I stuck with just to develop a routine and get as in shape as I can. He seemed pleased with this answer and excited to tailor a plan to do just that. I was quickly informed that today would just be cardio and we would start the hard core training tomorrow, after he has had some time to think up all kinds of fat burning, muscle toning moves! I’m not sure whether to be scared or excited. I think I’ll stick to both!

Prakesh put me on the treadmill and set the timer for 30 mins. He set the speed as well and it seemed really slow to me. Seeing as he is the expert, I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and leave it on what seemed like an easy speed. And it was for the first five minutes until the incline went into high gear and I climbed the equivalent of Mt. Everest! WOW! My hindquarters are feeling the burn! After the treadmill, it was the bike for 15 mins, which wasn’t a big deal at all.

Once my “easy” cardio work out was completed, Prakesh came back to talk about tomorrow. He asked if I had two hours to work out, I do so I couldn’t lie. Oh dear! And then he told me his name means “light.” It was a rather interesting statement to make after telling he was going to literally work my tail off for two hours! I guess he thinks I need to see the light of day or maybe that he is the light to lead me out of being overweight? I’m not sure, but for as long as I live I will think of my trainer, the light!

I’ll let you all know how tomorrow goes!
With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 14 days…

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Day 102: The Curious Case of Elizabeth’s Sleep

Tuesday, December 15

So since my temporary move to India, I seem to have messed my sleeping schedule up so bad that it is beyond repair. Back in the States, even on the weekends, I usually only sleep 6-8 hours. A night that I get eight hours is really considered “sleeping in” for me usually. So how is it that in India, 6-8 just seems to be impossible?

I have been trying for WEEKS, literally, to get up in time to go to the gym before getting ready for work. This really shouldn’t be a problem. Just like at home, there are 24 hours in a day, approximately 12 of which are used for work related items, including preparation time, transportation, actual work, and lunch. My body should not require the remaining 12 for sleeping! But for some reason, India has brought out the Queen of Sleep in me!

And who knew that too much sleep will give you bags under your eyes!! I have NEVER in my life had dark circles around my eyes, even when I’ve not had enough sleep. Why are they ever so apparent when I am sleeping like an infant??

I have set alarms to no avail. I manage to turn them off without even waking up. I have even put the alarm on the other side of the room so that I have to actually get out of bed to turn it off! Haha! I get up, turn it off, and crawl right back into bed. So I have a new game plan, wakeup call! Let’s see if having someone with a sweet Indian accent telling me to get my butt out of bed will motivate me to get up on time!

Knowing that I wouldn’t have all the responsibilities of home life, I had all the plans for what I was going to do with all the “free time” I am having in India. While I have read several books, I have yet to some much as open my GRE study guide nor grace the doorway of a gym. I am getting some exercise due to all the walking work and weekends includes, but come on, I was suppose to come home with a Julia Roberts body! ;-)

So the wakeup call is set and the personal trainer at the gym is just waiting for me to give him something to do, so hopefully, tomorrow I will actually make it up after eight hours of sleep instead of 12! And maybe the eye bags will disappear along with a few pounds!
Until tomorrow’s report…

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 15 days…

Day 101: Dalmatians…

Monday, December 14

LOL! I couldn’t resist! Get it, 101 Dalmatians! Like the movie! Ahhhhh, it was a rough night at work, cut me some slack.

No really, tonight was filled with me being pulled in 101 directions for eight solid hours! I’m not sure what the deal was, there was only one person that went home this weekend, and these guys should be mostly self-sufficient. I guess they all just had a case of the Mondays!
Other than work, I really don’t have much to talk about today. After my wild and crazy weekend and only about 6.5 hours of sleep in about 48, I crashed hard when I finally let myself go to bed last night. I feel asleep around 3:45 am and didn’t get up till about 4:45 pm! I haven’t slept that much without being sick in years! Like 25!!

I don’t even have any cool “this is what I ate today” things to share. But 101 days is how long I will be in India! I will be halfway through with my “tour” at the end of this week! Honestly, it really has gone by fairly quickly. And I have learned so very much! I will always remember this experience and I’m thankful for everyday I get to spend here. Even the not so fun ones like today!

Hopefully tomorrow will bring more to talk about!
With Love,
Eli

Countdown to Devin: 16 days…

Sunday, December 13, 2009

Day 100: Amazing Celebrations!

Sunday, December 13

One hundred days as a Kansasean!! Too bad I’m not actually in Kansas to celebrate! LOL! Oh well, today was one of my favorite days in India thus far and I’ve been looking forward to telling you guys about it throughout the day!

My day started rather early, especially since I have only slept about six and a half hours in the past forty-two. Two of us drove to the other side of New Delhi to meet up with a guy from work to attend church. Talk about an eye opening, amazing experience! The church itself looked about like what I expected, but the service was just what I needed and didn’t even know it. Of course the whole place was decked out for Christmas, but in addition to that, there was a children’s play that was one of the cutest I have ever seen. Then the service started and I found myself tearing up.

There is a reason Jesus instructed us not to forsake the assembling of His people. I didn’t realize how much I missed church. I mean I knew I missed the people, but how much I missed being in the house of the Lord surrounded by believers, my heart surged with every moment. I look forward to going back next week! Other than losing my favorite Bible somehow, one of my top India experiences! And if I am going to lose something important to me in India, I want it to be my Bible; this country needs it so much. My only prayer is that it ends up in the hands of someone that God can use it to change lives! FYI, Devin, a new American Standard would be a fantastic Christmas present to bring me when you come to India! Guess we will see if he reads my blogs! ;-) No cheating friends!!

After church, it was off to the mall for lunch and a movie! Lunch didn’t work out quit like I thought it would, but it’s all good. And the movie was GREAT! The movie theaters make the ones back home look like dumps!! Huge leather seats that recline fully, tons of leg room, and the best part, all for about $5! Man I love India!! Well, minus the fact that the popcorn left something to be desired…

After getting back from the mall and the movie adventure, I meet up with one of the ladies that didn’t go to the movie with us at the hotel restaurant. I wasn’t hungry at all, not until an hour or so after she finished eating and everyone else had joined us. We ended up sitting around talking for hours. We talked about everything from Mohawks to the state of the modern church and everything in between.

Now I’m back in my room playing the stay up late to get back on my “normal” schedule game once again. Luckily, I have a few things I need to get done so it should take up most of my time between now and 4am. Ok well, I hope your day was as wonderful as mine! Until Monday….

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 17 days…

PS from Devin- I POST all these blogs, cause my wife is to cheap to buy internet service over there...so of course I read them! :-) And with a collection of over 200 Bibles, I'm sure I can find a NASB around this office somewhere...crazy woman!

Day 99: Deck the Halls!

Saturday, December 12

So my plans to learn to cook Indian food today fell through. Kumar was with us for our Delhi adventure, and while I have not been to sleep yet, he on the other hand went home and crashed. We are going to reschedule sometime for a less eventful weekend! ;-)

Once back to the hotel, it was to the lunch buffet for a bite. I had some taste of Indian dishes, a slice of tenderloin (I love being at an American hotel, they even have cheeseburgers!) and some mashed potatoes! Unfortunately there were no green beans, but it was still pretty tasty!

After lunch, I headed up to my room and to a second care package! This one was from the church back home. They sent me cups of soup, lip gloss, granola bars, flavored splenda, a homemade Christmas card, a plethora of Crystal Light, Christmas M&M’s, and a Christmas CD!! I fixed a cup of apple cider, cranked up the Christmas music, and decked the halls! Ok so really I decked the window with Christmas cling-ons, but nonetheless I decorated for Christmas and loved every minute of it! All five of them! ;-)

I’ve spent most of the day with my knee propped up, sitting on the couch watching Maid in Manhattan and a new show, Royal Pain. Call me a bum if you must, but remember, I got out of bed at 4:45 pm yesterday, and it’s currently almost 7pm today!

At this point I’m just staying up long enough to talk to Devin! I already had dinner and said good bye to my dear Joy, crazy girl made me tear up. The rest of the evening looks like it going to involve watching America’s Got Talent and continuing to baby my beat up right side! ;-)
Tomorrow is church and a movie which will be a lot of fun after a great night’s sleep! So I think there is only one thing left to say, good night! ;-)

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 18 days…

Day 98: Its Friday Night, Oh My!!

Friday, December 11

Tonight was the craziest night I have experienced in years! I don’t want to give it all away, but let’s just say it involves motorcycles, merry-go-rounds, and eight hours with eight people in a minivan! What started as a few hours of hanging out after work to give Joy a fine farewell, turned into an all morning adventure!

After work, it was a quick run to the hotel to drop off all things work related. Once back in the van, we went to pick up a couple of friends from work. Next, off to Jas’s for Joy to get a motorcycle ride! A few others took turns and the rest of us jammed out to the radio station in the parking lot. Next, a sunrise tour of the greater Delhi area! Who knew how much fun seat dancing to Indi-Rock while wedged in the middle seat could be so much fun! Insert mild sarcasm….

Now that the sun was up, the bellies were growling! Where would one stop to grab a bite to eat at 8:30 in the morning? McDonald’s of course! After a picture of with the Ronald (pic posted on Facebook) it was inside for a lovely American breakfast. While there were no biscuits, there was Sausage Egg McMuffins! Other than not being able to get my usual pack of mustard to go with it, it was just like home. I was amazed how wonderful McDonald’s could taste for breakfast considering how much I HATE having it for dinner!

Next on the list, more Delhi touring and a trip to a genuine Indian Resort that I think must have been close to the coast as long as it took as to get there. But it was so amazing! When we pulled into the parking lot, there was the left over decorations from a wedding that were beautiful. Next, it was inside for a guided tour of the whole resort. Past the crystal blue swimming pool, it was to the full service spa. We saw all the different rooms where you can have everything from a full body massage to a hot stone treatment. They also have a couple massage room I’m thinking Devin and I should check out when he gets here!

The tour continued around the grounds. We had our picture made with a camel and even got to pet the sweet animal. We saw more of the wedding decorations that a small army was working on taking down. And then, the Mecca of the resort as we know it… the playground!

Imagine seven adults enjoying a swing, slide, monkey bars, see-saw, and merry-go-round! At least until I got flung off the merry-go-round and rolled about 10 feet before coming to a stop against another piece of playground equipment. I totally busted my hip, elbow, knee, and far right pinky toe! I have a lot more velocity at 26 than I did at 11, the last time I was on one of those things. My knee took the blunt of the trauma, but I think I will survive. Actually, I’m rather proud of myself. I’ve been in India for six weeks and this is my first notable bruise. As you know, grace is not my strong point so I think this is the remarkable feat!

After finishing the tour of the beautiful resort, it was finally back to the hotel, to complete our eight hour Delhi adventure! Seeing as tomorrow is already here, I’ll go right into my Saturday blog…

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 19 days…

Day 97: Boo Hiss Brown Cow

Thursday, December 10

Oh Friday, dear Friday, where for art thou!? Why is it that Thursdays seem like the longest day of the week, even longer than Mondays? At least in Elizabeth world…

Part of the problem is I have exciting plans for this weekend! Saturday I’m going to go over to one of the guys from work house and his wife is going to teach me to cook Indian style. Very exciting! Sunday morning I’m going to church with one of the few Christians I’ve met while here and then going to see New Moon with some of the girls from work. Should turn out to be an adventuresome weekend! Far superior to last weekend when I spent the weekend in bed wishing it didn’t hurt to breathe!

Nothing spectacular at work to write about and nothing really that exciting outside of work either. Unless you want to count the McDonald’s from last night making me sick and causing me to miss sightseeing, but I really don’t think any of this counts as exciting. Thus, I’m opting to use this blog to respond to some of the comments you, my faithful readers, have left! ;-)

Aunt Jane, I don’t know about the gym here yet. I was so sick when we moved in this past weekend, I wasn’t interested in looking. I have spent most of this week recuperating. Hopefully, by Monday I will be ready to rock-n-roll! And yes, knowing the hotel manager on a first name bases is proving to have its perks! They now have popcorn on the room service menu!! Oh, and a Cheeseburger at my favorite house of Lynnhaven drive sounds remarkable!!
Mama Rickett, the stair might be great exercise, but they are creepy as all get out! I think I’ll keep my exercise to the treadmills!

ECarter, I LOVE that you wanted to be Solid Gold Dancer! I do know what it is and I look forward to the day I get to see you show off those MAD dancing skills! ;-)
I love you all so much! And we’ll talk again tomorrow!

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 20 days…

Thursday, December 10, 2009

Day 96: Just Another Day in Indian Paradise

Wednesday, December 9

As I look at all the pictures on facebook of snow and hear reports of below freezing temperatures back home, I’m reminded of how lucky I am to be in a sunny, lovely India. I mean once you get used to the dusty air and the constant sneezing, it’s a lovely place!

No really, it’s great; I hate snow so it works out well for me. At least it will when they finally open the new pool and I can go back to my daily sunshine treatments! ;-)

I’ve turned the hotel room into a mini home away from home finally. I’m looking forward to decorating for Christmas this weekend. There is a package, including a Christmas CD, which is going to be here on Saturday so I’m thinking Sunday I’ll play the CD and hang my window cling decorations. No tree this year, at least not in my room, but according to the hotel manager, there will be one in the lobby after this weekend! I wonder if I can get in on helping decorate!

Work tonight was work. I did get to try a homemade Indian dish and pickled mango. I wasn’t sure what it would be like, but I really liked it! It was an eggplant dish but it really just tasted like the spices and such. And the pickled mango, very interesting. Not at all what I thought something that had been “pickled” would taste like, but very tangy and tasty!

Ok well, I’m out until tomorrow!
With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 21 days…

Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Day 95: Hot Chocolate!!! WOW!

Tuesday, December 8

So the longer we are at the new hotel, the more I am realizing it’s not so bad after all. Maybe it has something to do with the hotel GM that joined me for lunch today. His name is Matthew and he has worked for Marriot all around the world. He, his wife and two daughters have lived here in India for four years now and this is the second hotel that he has opened in Delhi.

Matthew had great stories about traveling all over Asia. And he is from Australia and told me all about Australian history as well as where to visit, just in case I’m ever in that part of the world. He was even at the Marriott across from the Twin Towers on 9/11. It was very interesting to hear his stories and just to talk to someone other than the work folks. Not that they are bad people, quite the opposite, I’ve just heard all their stories! ;-)

Plus, I learned about some of the things to come in the next few weeks as far as the hotel is concerned. There is a coffee shop opening in a couple weeks. As well as a Sushi bar in the new restaurant that should be opening soon! It’s kind of nice to know the guy that is making all the decisions about the hotel I have moved into for the next two months! And to drop a few hints on the things I would love to have added, like a microwave in my room!

But the best part of meeting the hotel general manager, I was introduced to the most amazing hot chocolate I have ever had in my entire life! It starts with fresh steamed milk in a very cute cup, served with three Lindor chocolate truffle balls on the side. You add the three truffles to the milk and stir like mad. Then, prepare to be amazed! I have never had hot chocolate that tasted this good! It was melt in your mouth, dream about another, fantastic!

Well, now that I have made your mouth water, and made me want another one, I better go for now! Have a great night and super thanks to everyone that has participated in my little questionnaire!

With Love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 21 days…

Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Day 94: Learning to Love…

Monday, December 7

It’s weird. Some days I feel like I’ve been here for six years, other times, like I’ve been here for six day. But never like the true, six weeks that I’ve actually been here. I will say I love the Indian culture. It’s very family oriented and they take care of each other. It’s a beautiful thing!
The new hotel is slowly getting better, well maybe... It did take us almost an hour to get to the office because of all the traffic coming from this way. But other than that, and a few other little kinks that need to get worked out, it’s not so bad.

I have had a problem with my key not working every other time I leave my room. When I got home for work tonight, my key didn’t work. Since it was 4am, no housekeeping was roaming the halls so I had to go back downstairs myself. Not such a big deal except for the part where the elevators weren’t working! Ok, so down the three flights a super sketchy stairs that leads outside of the building. Once I finally got to the hotel lobby, I was a little feisty, but politely explained my key dilemma and problem with the elevator. Not only were they able to permanently (we shall see) fix my key issue, they also explained that they are working on synchronizing the elevator and that too should be fixed by tomorrow morning!

Laundry is yet another adventure! I sent some laundry on Saturday and just got it back today. Amongst all my size clothing, there was an XS shirt. Obviously, not mine! And I’m missing a shirt that is mine. Housekeeping is working on this, and I hope I get it back. It’s my favorite nightshirt, one of Devin’s old shirts that is as close to a hubby hug as I can get in this foreign country. Well, at least until he gets here in 22 days! Not that I’m counting or anything!

Ok well tomorrow is technically already here so I should get some sleep. Have a fantastic day and keep in touch! I’m really starting to feel disconnected from the home country!

Eli
Countdown to Devin: 22 days…

Day 93: Better…

Sunday, December 6

So sorry for the super short blog last night. It was a rough day, but it really is amazing what almost 24 hours of straight sleep will do for a bad cold! That and some who-knows-what Indian cough syrup!

Anyway, I woke up this morning feeling considerably better although still quite stuffy. I went to the incredible breakfast buffet downstairs around 9:30 am. I ran into some of the other work folks and decided to head to the mall/store for a weekly restock of snacks around noon. After reminiscing over all we missed from our old hotel, we went our separate ways for a little bit.
At noon sharp, it was back down the sketchy, but getting better, elevators to take a cab out. We had planned on going to a mall closer to the new hotel, but the driver didn’t seem to have a clue of where we were talking about. We ended up going back to the mall at the Leela. Other than the feel of salt in a wound in seeing our precious hotel in passing, it was for the best.

I was able to hit up the atm, grab a cup of coffee, and go to the bazaar for some juice and cold medicine. Once back at the hotel, I felt drained. I laid in bed, not really sleeping, not really awake, until my tummy started growling like a bear in the spring. A sure sign that I’m getting better! Once again, down the slowly becoming more reliable elevator for some chicken and mashed potatoes! Yummy! So I think the food here is actually better! Maybe it’s the fact that it’s not quite as gourmet and a little more home like. Either way, at least that is one positive about this new hotel!

Unfortunately, it doesn’t make up for the leaky toilet and shower that doesn’t drain! But we passed a shanti town on the way back from the mall. I was once again reminded of how blessed and fortunate I am! I have a roof over my head, a bed to sleep in, and only miss meals when I choice to not stop long enough to have one! Thus, I’ve decided not to complain anymore about the new digs.

That pretty much sums up my first weekend in the new place! Tomorrow is the start of week six! Only nine more to go! Good thing the hubster will be here in less than four!! ;-)

Eli
Countdown to Devin: 23 days…

Day 92: Sick…

Saturday, December 5

Sorry this isn’t much of a blog. I have a nasty cough and killer headache. I’m going back to bed…

Eli
Countdown to Devin: 24 days…

Day 91: Bye, Bye Princess Lair

Friday, December 4

Well, today is moving day. Due to poor contract following on one hotel’s part, I am being forced to move out of my princess palace and into a commoner’s hotel. I will miss Ravi, my wonderful housekeeper. And Anish and Ruby my excellent coffee friends, and of course my Ankita who always tells me hello and have a good day! I’m not sure I can go back to the simple life of peasants, but then again, maybe a good dose of reality will make me more prepared for heading home. Ok off to packing, I’ll finish my blog from the other side….

Ten hours later…

UGH!!! One, I went from a little coughy to can’t hardly hold my head up at work tonight. I probably should have come back to the hotel sooner, but seeing as I had to move to the new hotel before falling asleep to not risk missing check out, I decided to stick it out. Two, now I’m at the new hotel, and it is exactly that, new! Don’t get me wrong, it’s very nice, it’s just not my Leela. The service is still trying to figure out there jobs, the elevators are hit and miss, and the bed is not broken in (read hard as a rock). Also, my poor skin went from sleeping with Egyptian cotton to 150 thread count exfoliating sheets, how will I ever manage??

Before you start making fun of me for being spoiled, remember I’m sick! Speaking of which, I’m going to go try to sleep off whatever this is that is making breathing a chore! One more thing, my travel plans have changed once again. I’m still in India till the beginning of February; I will just be staying in Delhi. No Mumbai of me, but it’s all good! I love Delhi!!

Until tomorrow…
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 25 days…

Day 90: Is Anyone Out There?

Thursday, December 3

Hmmm… So I’m beginning to wonder if anyone is still out there? I know my blogs are a lot more sporadic, and for that I apologize! I think I thought every day was going to be a lot more of an adventure then it has turned out to be, and maybe you guys did too. Oh well, at least I’m not bored, even if everyday seems to strongly resemble the day before! Who says you can watch too many reruns of Friends??

Anyway, in effort to bring some excitement to my otherwise dying blog, I decided to ask some questions. My request, if you read this, answer at least one question. Feel free to answer as many as you like, but please answer at least one, just to let me know you are out there! India’s kind of lonely otherwise ;-)

1) Pick a favorite hot beverage: cider, coffee, or cocoa?

2) While in India, what is the one thing I can’t go home without trying?

3) Which best describes your secret side: bananas, passion fruit, or eggplant?

4) What is the very first career you ever wanted? Think back to when you were four or five!

5) Favorite flavor of ice cream: Fruit and Nuts, Candies Galore, or Straight Shooting Chocolate?

6) Describe your dream vacation.

7) If you could be born in a different era, when would it be?

8) When I FINALLY get home, what should be the first thing I eat: Cheeseburger, sausage
biscuit, or blueberry muffin?

9) What is a bit of American news I have probably missed while in India?

10) Which would be hardest to live without: sugar, salt, or love?

Thank you to everyone that participates in my little link to the American world! I miss you guys and look forward to coming home!

With love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 26 days…

Day 89: Shades of Blue

Wednesday, December 2

I finished book three of my India trip. One of my favorite authors is Karen Kingsbury, but I only brought three of her books with me, so I have to ration them out. Especially since I read the entire book in three days! Well, this isn’t going to be much of a review, seeing the book was from my favorite author, of course I loved it, but at least I can give a brief overview so you fall in love too! ;-)

The two main characters of Shade of Blue, Emma and Brad, were elementary sweethearts back in Wilmington, NC. First plus since I’m a NC fan myself! Add the fact that Emma graduated from NC State, and we have a real winner!! Anyway, Brad went to the “other” NC school and then moved away to NYC. He and Emma would have probably lasted forever, except for a poor decision they made the summer after Brad graduated. In an attempt to hide their mistakes, Brad and Emma make a decision that forever changes their lives.

Emma is left feeling guilty and alone while Brad goes on with his life, burring his past in the depths of his memory. That is until weeks before his wedding, when he stumbles across an old picture of Emma. The guilt for all that they did compounds with the guilt over the way he left Emma overwhelms him. After deciding he can’t continue with his future until he confronts his past, he explains it all to his finance and heads back to the Carolina coast to straighten out his twisted mess he left behind.

This book is a tear jerking reminder of the power of forgiveness and acceptance. The ending is realistic; as is the entire book, and leaves you feeling reassured about true love and more importantly God’s love. While not my favorite Kingsbury read, this book was very good and was an excellent light read after the Shack and Memoirs of Geisha back to back!

With love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 27 days…

Day 88: December! Say What!!

Tuesday, December 1

I cannot believe its December! If I was at home the stockings would be hung from the chimney with care and tree sparkling with Barbie ornaments from here to there!! But India it’s a whole new ballgame. Supposedly they celebrate Christmas, but I am beginning to think I need to remind them what month it is. There is the slight possibility that the rest of the world doesn’t celebrate the Christmas holiday over a month period of time, and that they haven’t forgotten! Only time will tell…

Work is going well. I had my last interview for the promotion I put in for before moving from Jackson. If time can be used to judge, it must have went really well. The interview was almost two hours long! No really, I thought it went very well and the lady that interviewed me, who would most likely be my direct supervisor if hired, is awesome! She seems really nice, but beyond that her personality is one that I would work very well with. I should know something by next Wednesday, one way or the other. We shall see…

Other than that, life goes on as usual. I’m dreading the move to the new hotel. I’m really going to miss all that is the Leela Kempinski! But one can’t live life as a princess forever!

With love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 28 days…

Day 87: I HATE CRICKET!!

Monday, November 30

Ok so I realize that hate is a strong word, but I think that about sums up my feelings for this insane sport. For those of you that know me at all, you know that I am by no means some kind of sports hating girl. I know the rules to most sports. ESPN is on channel 35 in India. I know the Super Bowl is played either the last weekend in January or first weekend in February, depending on the season, and all the number name combinations for March Madness. I even know the World Series is a seven game series! I love hockey and can enjoy the occasional wrestling match, and a perfect Sunday involves me and a Titans or Colts game. Needless to say, I like most sports!

With the exception of this weird game called cricket! Now, I realize that cricket is not a sport I grew up with, so when I discovered that there are literally FOUR channels devoted to 24 hours a day of the sport, I decided I should learn a little more about it. I attempted to watch the game several time, yea that was boring! So I thought I would ask someone the rules of the game. After all, maybe I was missing something.

No such luck! The point is to hit the weakly pitched ball, which is allowed to bounce off the ground, and manage not to hit these three little sticks out of this whole big field! Wow, so difficult! (Insert sarcasm) Oh and to make it even more “complex,” there are only two bases and neither of them is home, you just have to run back and forth as many times as possible before someone catches you. Ummmm fun!

Anyway, glad there are a few other channels to choose from! Who am I kidding, I have way more channels then at home! LOL! I love India!

With love,
Eli
Countdown to Devin: 29 days…